So you got the girl and are trying not to mess things up. To make sure your dating doesn’t take a nosedive, you’ll need to make an intentional effort to keep impressing your girlfriend.
Keeping Your Girlfriend Interested
It’s natural for interest to wane in a dating relationship. As the days grow into weeks, it’s normal for that fiery romance to start to cool. If you’re hoping to keep the magic alive, read through the following six steps to keep impressing your girlfriend.
1. Every Girl Loves the Grand Gesture
The nature of the grand gesture is the storyline of every romantic comedy in history. By making a grand gesture of your love, you’ll be able to regularly stoke the fires of love in your relationship. Surprise your girlfriend with her favorite food or drinks when she least expects it.
Take her out of town on a romantic getaway when she has a few days off of work. By showing you care enough to plan something spontaneous, you’ll be able to keep her thinking and wondering about you.
2. Be Personable Around her People
As you and your girlfriend continue to get to know each other, you’ll both meet more of the people in each other’s lives. Whenever your girlfriend introduces you to her people, be it at a work event, family reunion, or a gathering of her girlfriends, make sure you are ready to impress her friends with witty conversation and a personable attitude.
3. Keep the Focus on Her
Too many men get comfortable and use precious together time to use the phone, play video games, or something else that detracts from time spent with each other. By making every moment count, your girlfriend will know the relationship is still important to you.
4. Always Listen Intently
Although women are typically painted as the “talkative” ones in a relationship, this isn’t always the case. Women don’t want to talk to a romantic companion that they know isn’t interested in listening to them. Instead of making your girlfriend feel undervalued, try to make a point to always engage her in conversation and listen whenever she shares about her day.
5. Be You
As cliche as it sounds, it is always best to be yourself when you’re trying to impress anyone. Your girlfriend will always be able to tell if you aren’t being real with her, so be sure to stay true to yourself.
6. Practice Good Manners
Good manners never go unnoticed. What is noticeable, however, is a lack of manners. Your girlfriend may have been able to overlook any bad manners at the beginning of your relationship, but if you hope to keep dating her, be sure to practice good manners.
The secret to long-lasting relationships is one few people uncover. If you hope to keep your girlfriend impressed, try these six tips. Nothing is guaranteed in life or love, but making a point to try will make all the difference.